Life of Winners

A Brief Introduction To Our Situation

Life has its ups and downs, and we often experience a range of emotions in response to various events.

Antonyms such as profit-loss, meeting-separation, and win-loss are parallel to the experiences everyone faces throughout their lives.

It is human nature to feel happy whenever we succeeds or gets some profit. During these moments, everything seems to be in our favor.

On the other hand, failure and loss bring heartache and demotivate the individual.

The discomfort during these circumstances is unbearable.

Periodically, during this life’s journey, we encounter cases that are very tough to handle.

The solution to these kinds of problems seems impossible to find, don’t they?

Friends, we all know that our life is full of riddles. Every single day, we face fresh challenges. We try to fix new concerns every morning as soon as we wake up.

There is nobody who does not have issues in their life.

And almost everyone tries their best to find a solution to these so-called issues.

Few get a solution, and fewer are blessed enough to eradicate them completely from their lives.

But the bottom line is that we all have to confront problems.

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Patience:Something We Must Have

Every human possess many characteristics that can help us to tackle everyday problems of our lives.

But apart from the bungle of traits, one feature is most noteworthy.

And everyone should own this feature if they want to come out of the problems of their lives.

Any idea what it could be?

Do you know which feature I am talking about?

Let me share my perspective.

For me, the most significant characteristic we should have is: Patience.

But wait!

It is not that easy to cultivate patience.

To truly embody patience, we need two additional qualities that help us develop this attribute.

I’m sure you’re eager to discover these two characteristics. So, let’s dive in!

Pillers of Patience

First one is

Perseverance in oneself

On the cards, whenever we encounter trouble, no matter how big or small it would be, our Mind is the first sufferer. And it is the one who reacts to the sitaution before anything else.

And in such cases, if we have strong perseverance, it becomes easy to tackel any problem.

If we have this trait, you can consider yourself halfway toward resolving any issue you face.

Now, let’s discuss the second important aspect.

It is as essential as the first one.

Spiritual Potency

And mind you, expertise in these two valuable characteristics takes work. Infact a of hard work.

To acquire these two traits, one often has to let go of many comforts and make various sacrifices.

And once we are filled with these two properties, we will naturally develop Patience.

And thus, the more patient we become, the more quickly we can tackle the problem. No matter how large or severe it is.

Understanding these two essential qualities that help us tackle challenges, I want to share that there are seven different ways we can cultivate them.

If we incorporate these seven habits into our lives, we can effortlessly develop perseverance and spiritual potency, leading to the ultimate trait: patience.

So, do you want to learn about these six habits?

Do you want to be an expert with these six most powerful norms?

Let’s discuss them!

Keep in mind that some of the habits we will talk about involve things we need to let go of, while others are qualities we should embrace.

Seven Norms of Patience

First: Bring humility into your life.

Make a list of all the good qualities you believe a person could possess. When you examine these qualities deeply, you will find that humility is at their core.

Second: Lust

We should concentrate on our ultimate dream as lust could easily deviate us from our goal.

Lust could be present in any form.

It will not allow us to think positively and surely will not help us to get rid of our problems.

Instead, it will push us deep into our dire circumstances.

Third: Greediness

It is another prospect we have to try to stop practicing. As I mentioned earlier, there are some traits that we should acquire and others that we should relieve from our daily life routines.

Being greedy is one such thing should lay off.

A greedy person lacks patience and will never find contentment.

Fourth: Backbiting

Engaging in backbiting wastes our time and fosters negativity in our thought processes. Therefore, refrain from discussing others behind their backs and avoid listening to gossip from friends or family. By doing this, we can cultivate positive thoughts and save ourselves a significant amount of time.

Fifth: Avoid being lazy.

As laziness stops us from doing anything meangingful.

We can only achieve whatever we want if we are active.

No one has ever achieved anything by being a lazy bum.

Sixth: Contentment.

People often mix this with Patience, but both these are different concepts.

When I say contentment, it means stopping yourself from going to an extent in various worldly comforts like eating, sleeping, and enjoying excessively.

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Consuming more than we need can be toxic.

Iceberg=Patience

As I told you earlier, when we develop these six characteristics-by keeping a few and giving up some-we will establish two important parameters that are integral to our identity.

And those two will bring one most vital attribute in us, which will surely help us fighting crises and challenges.

And a person with these supernatural powers can surely face all the problems with a smiling face.

As I mentioned earlier, when we develop these six characteristics—by keeping some and letting go of others—we will establish two important parameters that are integral to our identity.

And these two parameters will lead us to one essential quality, which will undoubtedly help us confront problems and challenges.

Let me give you an example.

You may have often seen icebergs and noticed that what we see on the surface is only 20 percent of the entire mass; 80 percent remains submerged. This is why icebergs float: they have a strong foundation.

Similarly, we will thrive when we have a robust foundation.

To strengthen our base, we need to embody those six characteristics, which will bring us the two parameters and ultimately equip us with a powerful tool to tackle our troubles and sorrows.

Once we achieve these, every difficulty we encounter will seem minor.

Our ability to manage these challenges will grow.

However, we won’t acquire these six qualities simply by stating them; we must actively work to cultivate them in our lives.

Some habits will need to be discarded, while others will need to be adopted. This process is demanding, but possessing these qualities is invaluable. To acquire precious things, we often have to invest more effort.

Always remember: while we can find coal easily, diamonds are available only in select places, and they come at a higher price.

This is not just a theoretical notion; it requires a strict commitment to practice in our lives.

We all know examples of individuals who have embraced these qualities and subsequently faced challenges head-on, emerging victorious.

Conversely, some people don’t seem to encounter significant problems, and instead, they create their own troubles. Such individuals squander their potential in vain.

The choice is yours: will you confront the challenges in your life, or will you create problems for yourself?

Furthermore, it’s essential to listen to those we respect, believe in, or love.

While it may seem trivial, listening to trusted individuals can strengthen their faith in us and offer valuable guidance.

Additionally, knowing that our actions receive approval from those we care about can be reassuring.